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Generally there are two main reasons for divorce
that can be cited in court - a divorce on fault grounds or a no
fault based divorce. However, what is more interesting to research
is the actual underlying reasons why a couple chooses to file
for divorce.
The reasons for divorce in a fault based divorce
are somewhat more tangible. As there has to be evidence produced
in court to back up a fault based divorce, there can be little
doubt what the underlying reason is.
However for a no fault based divorce, the reasons
can vary so dramatically, it is not an underestimation that if
you ask roughly one hundred divorced people the reason why they
got divorced that you would receive one hundred different answers.
The reason being that divorce is a highly personal matter and
everyone will answer their question from their own perspective.
Going through a divorce is, without a doubt, a
very emotional time for all parties concerned. Due to this, even
though initially the reasons for divorce may have been due to
the two parties growing apart, at the end of the process both
parties may see things differently. This is particularly the case
where the divorce process has been messy.
It is clear from all the statistical evidence
collated, that there are usually several contributing reasons
for divorce. These reasons can be as wide ranging as differences
in parental styles, to substance abuse, to financial problems.
In addition the background you had when you were growing up can
also be a strong contributing factor. If your parents are divorced
then there is a high probability - in fact thought to be twice
as high - that you are likely to experience divorce for yourself.
Cohabiting before entering into a marital relationship
is also thought to be a leading factor for divorce, according
to the statistics. This is not least due to the fact that there
is a strong pressure for cohabiting couples to marry before they
are ready to. It is also believed, but not proven, that cohabiting
couples subsequently entering into a marriage relationship will
take the relationship less seriously and therefore make less of
an effort to make it a success.
Overall, whatever the reasons for divorce are,
no-one actively enjoys going through the divorce process. So the
reasons must be good, even if people outside of the relationship
do not fully understand what they are.
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