| cdmohatta
Are you feeling relieved after divorce or cheated?
After many divorces people feel happy while in many rather more
cases they feel cheated. Why? Divorce it self is a very painful
process and the times that lead to divorce are more painful. The
question is why get the sense of feeling cheated after getting
divorce? Let us talk about this.
Relationship demands giving - People give a lot
to their marriage; most of them do it except few. Right from the
development of relationship, a lot of time, emotional energy and
physical resources are given to make it work. During marriage
the investment goes higher. Most of the partners want the marriage
to work. There are exceptions that unbelievably want to destroy
because of psychological problems. When cracks develop in the
marriage, lot more effort is made to save the marriage and when
the marriage breaks after putting in so much effort, one feels
cheated.
Is this true for all?
This is not true for all. There are few individuals who do not
give anything in marriage. They ask for it. The demand and contribute
nothing. That is the game of selfishness played by them. So these
people will never feel cheated. They will only feel bad that they
lost an easy victim.
What should you do?
The only way out is to forget the losses. Try to erase the past
as much as possible. This will be difficult, but break the pain
bit by bit. Work on it and it will go away one day. Try to forge
another relationship and forget what went wrong. Cut your losses
as soon as possible.
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