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Divorce is not like a volcano. One fine day, we
find that a volcano has erupted. Divorce happens over a period
of time. The relationship breaks down continuously and we realize
that life can no longer be lived together. Many couples wake up
when the break down has become total. That becomes very difficult
to save the marriage. After that they spend endless nights worrying
about what to do - To go for divorce or not? Why not to take care
of the relationship today and find out how it is and what care
it needs. What changes will make it better? And improve it before
it reaches the brink?
Ask questions such as - Am I happy in my marriage/
Is my partner happy? Am I emotionally satisfied? What about my
partner? Is marriage giving us joy or pain? Are we still in love?
Is one of us feeling victimized? Shall we grow together till our
old age? Are we loyal to each other? What kind of relationship
do we share now? Are we feeling sick of each other? And so on.
Raise as many questions about your marriage, yourself and your
partner as you can think of. Take some online tests and quizzes
on marriage and relationship. That will give lot of thought to
your mind.
As you think of questions, you will start thinking
more deeply about where you are heading. Find out all that is
going wrong. Try to improve that. Discuss with your partner about
what you think. Find out all that is going right. Make it still
better. Think, plan and act. Before thinking, test your marriage
in all the possible ways. Wake up now. Tomorrow may be too late.
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