Anthony
Bradley
If your sexless marriage is giving you great worry,
you may think that the problem is just too much to bear and going
to a divorce lawyer seems inevitable but this is not always the
case. Sexless marriages are the source of a lot of marital distress
and finding a solution can be difficult and will require a lot
of of thought before you even consider getting a divorce lawyer.
A sexless marriage can:
Make you feel extremely lonely.
Damage your self-esteem and confidence.
Make you feel confused and listless.
Make you feel depressed.
You will have to find out the reasons why your
marriage has become sexless when it used to be romantic,loving
and sexually satisfying. Marriage without sex is bad but married
sex without emotions is just as bad.
Your sexless marriage could be caused by a physical
problem or psychological problem in which case medical help should
be sought.
Here are some other possible causes for why a
marriage has become sexless.
(1) You are "stuck at home" while your
partner works long hours
When one partner stays at home feeling ignored
and lonely while the other is working very long hours then it
is very common for the person who stays home to take out their
frustrations on their partner by avoiding sex as a type of silent
protest. This can become an entrenched attitude, which is hard
to break once it has started.
(2) You both work long hours.
When both you and your partner have time-consuming
and demanding careers you will seldom get the opportunity to spend
time together and end up like the proverbial ‘ships that
pass in the night’. The problem then is not one of frustration
and loneliness for one of you but simply lack of time together
which can cause you to drift apart sexually and emotionally.
You must decide what is more important, your marriage
or your work and try to find a way of re-scheduling your time
so that you don't drift apart just by not seeing each other enough.
(3)Other reasons why your marriage is now sexless.
You have to think of some other possible reasons
for why you no longer feel sexually attracted to your partner
such as:
You no longer find them attractive.
They don't show you any emotions.
They lie to you and deceive you.
They are selfish and lazy.
They are disrespectful and abusive toward you.
They do not listen to your problems.
There are lots of other reasons for a sexless
marriage but all of the above can be a reason why you avoid sex
with your partner thereby creating stress within your marriage.
Marriage counseling may eventually be required
to help you find out what the problem is and help you to restore
the intimacy you once had.
If you do not address the problems in your sexless
marriage then the problems could lead you into the arms of someone
else… a divorce lawyer.
Article Directory: http://www.articlecube.com Anthony Bradley
is a writer for Save Your Marriage which has many more articles
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