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Divorce is an ongoing process in a person's life.
As people pass through the different stages of divorce, their
experiences are unique to their situations. There is no such thing
as a typical divorce. All parents must strive to find out what
works effectively for their individual family. When children are
involved, the result does not have to end with a negative impact.
Parenting through and after a divorce helps to
reassure children that the parental roles will continue. It applies
to all parents whether they are married or divorced. The extent
to which parents can effectively co-parent and refrain from conflict
in the presence of their children greatly determines how children
will adjust to the transitions associated with divorce. As most
experts will agree, the continued conflict and disparaging of
the other parent are the most harmful aspects of divorce and the
most detrimental to children.
During a divorce it is common for emotions to
surface and very tempting to get caught in historical arguments.
The end result is almost always hurtful and the focus on the children's
best interest is often lost. Leave the issues of your marriage
in the past to avoid the pain that lead to the divorce. Find ways
to discuss your feelings and receive the support needed from family,
friends or health professionals to help guide you through the
difficult stages. Taking the time to address your own needs will
help your children. Children will feel more secure if they sense
that their parents are emotionally healthy. Having healthy outlets
for your own feelings will help you get through the divorce process
successfully and alleviate some of the stress associated with
it.
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