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If you search for the term ‘divorce
separation’ on the internet then you will find a lot of
information about both of these topics. It is a sad fact of society
today that more people are seeking either divorce or separation
from their spouse, which is perhaps why there is so much information
available.
Whilst most people believe that if you are separated
this will always lead eventually to divorce, this is not necessarily
the case. Although it does have to be said that it is true in
the majority of situations. A separation is a non legal-binding
trial end to a relationship. As such it is seen as a temporary
step to allow you or your spouse a bit of freedom to get sorted
out and their life back into order. After a period of being apart
- normally around 4 - 6 months - both parties may try living together
again to see how things work out.
Alternatively, a separation also occurs where
the two parties were cohabiting to begin with and never legally
formalized their relationship. In cases such as this, the separation
is normally seen as the formal end to the relationship.
Divorce though is the final step in making the
separation from your spouse legal. It is the final division of
all items, material, financial, children or otherwise, between
the two parties which enables both parties to separate and begin
to build their different lives.
For both divorce and separation it is possible
to draw up official papers in order to agree the division of items
between the two parties. For divorce these papers are known as
divorce papers and for separation they are known as a separation
agreement.
If your current relationship is not working, the
process of having a trial separation or filing immediately for
divorce will be a painful process for both parties. To make the
process less painful it helps if you are able to discuss it amicably
with your spouse. Consulting a marriage guidance counsellor or
a neutral third party may also help, either by saving your relationship
or helping both of you to realize that your relationship is beyond
repair and that the best way forward is to end it.
If you are looking for advice in the area of divorce
separation, there are lots of avenues open to you. As well as
there being the option of consulting a trained professional, there
are numerous books, magazines and help groups who you can consult
who can offer your advice and guidance through the entire process.
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